Good morning, Mamma! Happy Monday! Alright, so, three weeks to go, what do you want to fit in your life? What do you WANT to get done in the next three weeks? We can’t do it all, but we can do enough. We can’t have perfection, but we can still have wonderful.
What matters to you? What makes your heart soar? What have you been wanting to do, just, forever? Do that.
What makes your stomach churn? What makes your heart ache? What do you hate and have hated forever? Skip that.
I love cards. And making cookies with my kids. Love them beyond reason. I make time for those.
The women in my neighborhood do a ladies-only ornament party. They are lovely humans and they give a lovely party, but in the past, when I would go, I would sit there wishing I was home with my kids. I finally wised-up and now I skip the party to stay home and make cookies with my kids. And I’m happier.
I have a full-time job outside my home. That means that I have less time in the day for home-making, but making a home is still a precious and crucially important job. So I make choices.
Yes to the cards. No to the party. Yes to reading books by a fire. No to home-made caramels. Yes to time with family, no to after-work time with co-workers. Yes to cutting down our own tree, no to real garland swags.
And here’s the thing: I love parties and caramels and real evergreen garland swags, but I have to make choices. Were I to try to fit it all in, I would be a hysterical, stressed-out mommy and that would not be fun at all. (I know I would, I’ve tried to fit it all in some Christmases past and been that screaming banshee. NOT festive. Not festive at all.)
Three weeks. What matters to you? Do that.
The rest of it? Outsource it if you can, or just let it go and no regrets.
Christmas, like life, does not have to be perfect to be wonderful.