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my response Choose what works for your children, your heart, your marriage. And don’t let anyone guilt you into living a life that doesn’t fit you. If you need to work outside the home, do that. If you need to stay home, do that. If you need to go conquer Kilimanjaro, do that. Thankfully, we have choices now. CHOICES. Thank God.
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Happy healthy kids. Happy healthy marriage. Happy healthy mommy. There are so many ways to accomplish these goals.
The radio talk show host told the woman to ignore her friends and live the life that worked for her and her family.