article Good morning, Mamma. Happy Thursday! How are you?
get more I have a tale of Mamma-courage for you this morning. A dear friend of mine, a grad student, recently put her kids first in such a brave way.
http://www.lavozdeldesierto.com.ar/tymochka/1118 This woman has five kids. Five. Recently divorced, she got into an exclusive graduate school program, woo-hoo and well done her. She needs that degree to earn enough to support herself and those five kids into perpetuity.
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contactos mujeres ciudad eal Her professor disagreed with the way she structured her paper, gave her 44/100 points, and called her into the office to tell her of the grade and let her know that she could re-do the paper.
visit here Now this friend of mine is one of those very detail-oriented people. She had carefully read the instructions (always a challenge for me) and put the paper together accordingly.
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article My friend had a perfect score, a 100% in that class, going in to the Uber-paper. That’s right, she hadn’t missed one point all semester.
So she looked the professor in the eye, did some quick mental math and said, “Respectfully, no thanks. I have promised this weekend to my kids. Even with a 44, my overall grade will be a C, a passing grade. I appreciate the opportunity, but I did my best on this paper and I do not want to take the time away from my kids to do it over.”
She said her professor looked at her agog and speechless.
I wish I could’ve been there.
There are times when we have to choose that are easy, there are times when we have to choose that are hard. When it’s hard, and when it’s important, I hope you still put your kids first, and I hope you’ll have someone there to cheer your courage when you do.
Well done, grad-girl-Mamma. I hope you guys had an amazing weekend.