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http://surfscooter.com/?maska=quiero-conocer-chicas-de-buenos-aires&310=ce My husband said something like, “MMMFGRG… HUH? What?”
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rencontres sérieuses 44 My husband, my wonderful man, is many things, but he is not the kind of guy who will notice an opportunity for romance and plan accordingly. For me to wait for him to be that guy would be an exercise in frustration for both of us. For me to wait till the day, hoping silently that he had noticed and planned something, and then storming around the house in a huff because he hadn’t, waiting for him to notice how upset I was, punishing him for not noticing… this kind of childish drama wrecks relationships and marriages.
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If you married a fish, appreciate his wonderful fishy-ness. Be grateful for all the good things your fish brings to your relationship. But, if you married a fish, don’t waste your time or your marriage wanting him to be a bear.
Date night. If you need it, ask.
And dishes and dinners, if you need those, ask for those too.
Simple, direct, straight to the point, and, I would hope, lovingly requested. Let your man know what you need.
Happy date night, Mamma.