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baixar lucy ligar gratis I am on day four away from my kids. One more day to go.
How do I stay close to my kids when I’m half a country away? Is it possible? Am I insane for living this life? (By Day Four it is nearly inevitable that I begin to ask myself this question.)
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http://qhublogistics.net/?ploskis=site-rencontre-apres-50-ans&305=bf So, that sounds sane.
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click to find out more So back to the Kid Connection question: Can I stay close to them?
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• Shared experiences.
• Knowing each other, and knowing each other requires ongoing communication and observation. Ongoing, because people change and grow.
• Taking care of each other. Those outward expressions of “you are important to me”.
That’s some of it.
Of these three, how much can I do from thirteen hundred miles away?
Well, I can call. If I can’t share their experiences live and in person, I can do so by letting them tell me about it. I can write notes for them to find while I’m gone. So we can still communicate, even from far away. I can prep food the weekend before so that every time they open the fridge they see that I love them and am still trying to take care of them. Skype, texting pictures, texting them car pool reminders to let them know that I am still aware of their needs. Lots of little things – and little things add up.
Building, building, building… one little block at a time.
Build the bridge, Mamma. Wherever you are, whatever is going on. Look around at what’s available to you, and build the bridge.